Our family mediation service can help separating couples resolve disputes without having to go to court. The process empowers former partners to negotiate arrangements for children, finances and property, with the help of a professional, impartial mediator.
Family mediation can help you take control
Family mediation is a cost-effective method of resolving issues such as financial settlements on divorce and sorting out the arrangements for your children.
Our accredited family mediator, Liz Morris, encourages participants to have an open and honest conversation with a view to finding realistic and practical solutions. Mediation is all about communication: if two people can understand each other’s concerns and goals, and feel that they have been heard, often a solution can be found.
There is currently a government-backed “Family Mediation Voucher Scheme” for child-related mediations, which was extended in January 2022. Under the scheme, up to £500 of mediation costs can be funded by the Ministry of Justice for eligible separated families who need to make arrangements for children.
If you believe mediation may be able to help you, we can arrange a Mediation Information and Assessment meeting (MIAM). Call us today on 01482 326666 or click here to download our mediation referral form.
Liz Morris is accredited by the Law Society and the Family Mediation Council, and is a member of Resolution.org.uk
The role of a mediator
The mediator will assess you to see if you and your ex-partner are suitable candidates for mediation. The mediator will consider the nature of any dispute between you, and in particular whether mediation can occur without either of you feeling threatened in any way.
Mediators are in charge of the process and provide a structure for conversation to help participants talk, listen and think. They will listen attentively to all participants and will remain impartial. Mediators have no stake in the conflict and do not advocate for one party’s benefit. They are there to assist all participants to reach an agreement that satisfies everyone. Mediation can offer the following benefits:
- Saves on costs
- Less acrimonious
- Quicker than other methods of dispute resolution
- Can improve communication and future relations
- Can be conducted on a “shuttle” basis if required
What are the benefits of mediation?
Mediation allows the participants to remain in control and empowers them to make joint decisions on the issues that concern them, rather than handing over the control / power to a judge who doesn’t know them (or their children).
Mediation gives the participants an opportunity to fix the problem. They can tell each other their frustrations and hurts, work through any misunderstandings, express regret and ask for what they need from the other person. They can talk about any issue that concerns them and are not restricted to discussing the official complaint – which is often the case in court proceedings.
An agreement that is reached by participants willingly, is often more likely to be adhered to than an order that is imposed upon them. Mediation works best when participants actively engage in the process and genuinely want to resolve their difficulties. They realise that going to court to resolve their conflict could have costly consequences and are willing to cooperate with one another to find a solution. Mediation also works best when participants are capable of making plans and keeping promises.
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What kind of agreements can be reached?
In relation to money and property issues, mediators can help both of you understand your financial positions. The mediator will help you consider all of the options available to you and attempt to help you reach a financial settlement after considering each of your circumstances and needs. The mediator will also help you to consider the children’s financial needs.
In relation to child arrangements, the mediator can help both of you discuss your children’s needs and express any concerns in relation to their upbringing. The mediation process may also assist to establish the housing arrangements for the children and the children’s contact between the parent who does not have day to day care of the children.
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Ongoing legal advice
You will be encouraged to take legal advice throughout the process as and when required and it is very important that you do so before finalising any financial agreement. You will not be pressured into reaching an agreement in mediation and any agreement is subject to legal advice.
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Will I have to pay for mediation?
You will be assessed to see if you are eligible for legal aid for family mediation. If you qualify then the Legal Aid Agency will fund your costs for mediation. If you do not qualify we will provide you with full details of our fixed fees. There is currently a government-backed “Family Mediation Voucher Scheme” for child-related mediations. This scheme was extended in January 2022. We can discuss whether you are likely to be eligible for a voucher during your Mediation Information and Assessment meeting (MIAM).
Call us today on: 01482 326666
How long will mediation take?
It is difficult to set out a timetable for each individual case. Each session lasts approximately one and a half hours and most cases require two or three sessions. You will be asked at the end of each session if you wish to have another meeting. If you have complicated financial matters to sort out, you may need at least three or four sessions.
Call us today on: 01482 326666
Mediation complaints proceedure
We are committed to providing a high quality mediation service to all of our clients. When something goes wrong, we need you to tell us about it. This will help us to improve our standards. If you have a complaint, please contact Carl Bailey, Hamers Solicitors LLP, 5 Earls Court, Priory Park East, Hull, HU4 7DY. Complaints must be made within 3 months of the cause for complaint. If the complaint relates to the mediation process as a whole then the 3 month timescale runs from the date of the last mediation session.
Your complaint will be acknowledged within 10 working days of receipt and will be investigated and responded to within 30 working days of receipt. If further time is required, you will be notified in writing. It may be appropriate for the complaint to be mediated with the mediator if you and the mediator agree for this to happen.
If we have dealt with your complaint through our complaints procedure and you are still not satisfied, you can contact the Family Mediation Standards Board (FMSB) via fmsb@familymediationcouncil.org.uk or by phone on 0844 556 7215.
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